Cindy - you can make an appointment for you to talk face to face with someone. (I’m sure your husband can do that for you, he can explain you have limited French)
On the day - your own French is a start…
Take your information and ideas/questions (prepared in French with your husband’s help).
The Tax Office are there to help folk get on the right track - and stay there.
It may take more than just one appointment - but it might prove worthwhile - and I would suggest you give it a go.