I see also that we have three people without photos on today's leaderboard of the six most popular articles.
Those three articles are all interesting and the responses informative. As mentioned, below in other members' responses, it would make the articles so much more impersonal if we could see the people who penned the posts.
If any of you have any difficulty, or don't know how to upload a photo, then please follow Catharine's link above.
I prefer a real photograph too. I think it's nice to at least see the face when chatting on the chatbox, or replying to discussions. I really hope all those black boxes with "new member" written across the bottom are soon replaced with a photo.
I do ID check as best I can by checking emails / FB / twitter accounts. We could have had 5000 plus members by now but I do reject those which are ādodgyā - apologies to āKate Middletonā who recently tried to sign upā¦
face to face is always the best method of communication but for the widespread ex-pat community this is difficult to achieve so the profile photo is really important as it at least gives the illusion of a face to face chat.
I really must change my profile photo or youāll all think itās always winter here! But yes, they are important because otherwise itās impersonal, like using a pseudonym. Would you rather talk to someone calling himself mbwa mkali? Or Terry Williams? Same with photos: Iād rather see who Iām talking to.
Iām a complete techno- phobe and am not keen on being photographed- these two things to one side it is very important on an open forum like SFN to āknowā who youāre talking to. In short itās just good to see an image of the person whoās asking for/ giving advice or just to see who youāre chatting too and it makes it feel more friendly.
I was guilty of not uploading a photo for quite a while, mainly because I hate looking at photos of myself. Anyway have now done it and I have found that people do interact in a more positive way .
PS. it also stopped the nagging from several people. Win win.